In 4:25-5:2 Paul shows us how to put into practice the truths presented in 4:17-24. The value of the passage is indicated by Saint Chrysostom’s devoting to its ten verses 3 1/2 of the 24 sermons in his “Homilies on Ephesians” (see below). Some commentators consider 5:1-2 with the verses following them instead of with 4:25-32. Peter T. O’Brien (see below) gives as his reason for putting it with 4:25-32, “The exhortation to live in love summarizes the preceding specific admonitions, while the motivating clause about Christ’s death, which provides the theological basis for the admonition, rounds out the passage in a climatic way” (page 335).
25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another. 26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: 27 Neither give place to the devil. 28 Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with [his] hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth. 29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. 30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: 32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. 1 Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; 2 And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour. (KJV; for other versions, see https://www.blueletterbible.org/)
25 Paul encourages the Ephesian believers to practice telling the truth instead of lying, appealing to their being members of one another. The verse quotes Zechariah 8:16, “Speak ye every man the truth to his neighbour.” “Neighbour” here refers primarily to fellow Christians (“for we are members of one another”). R. C. H. Lenski (see below) considers the question as to whether a lie is ever justified. He replies, “[No.] Panic, loss of presence of mind, cowardice make a Christian lie. There is always a way out, perhaps there are several.” Ways that he suggests are: confront a question asked you with a question of your own, speak the truth in love (verse 15), decline to speak, and take the consequences (pages 575-76).
26 Although further on in the passage (verse 31) Paul tells his readers, “Let all…anger…be put away from you,” in this verse he suggests that anger is sometimes justified. However he warns them not to sin in their anger (compare Psalm 4:4, “Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still”), to keep it brief, and not to give an opportunity to the devil. John Calvin (see below) identifies three occasions when God is offended by our anger: “The first when we are angry from slight causes, or often from none or are moved by private injuries or offences. The second is when we go too far, and are carried into intemperate excess. The third is when our anger, which ought to have been directed against ourselves or against sins, is turned against our brethern” (page 192). Albert Barnes (see below) adds: “(4.) When it is attended with the desire for revenge… (5.) When it is cherished and heightened by reflection…. And (6) when there is an unforgiving spirit” (page 998). “Let not the sun go down upon your wrath” is a way of saying that anger must not endure; the situation must be dealt with quickly and then set aside, not giving the devil an opening (verse 27). Most commentators agree that “Let not the sun go down upon your wrath” does not apply to anger over injustice, which ought to be sustained until the evil which prompted it has been removed.
27 Although personal sin is generally due to our evil desires (James 1:14-15, “But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin”) rather than to tempting by Satan, he can use our sins (including those connected with anger) to bring about greater evil, such as causing strife within the individual and the community. Later in Ephesians Paul tells the believers to put on the full armour of God (6:10-20, especially verse 11). Of course anger is not the only means Satan uses to achieve his ends. O’Brien comments, “Within the exhortatory context of vv. 25-31 there are prohibitions against lying (v. 25), stealing (v. 28), and ‘unwholesome talk’ (v. 29). The temptation to do any of these…is presumably the occasion of a spiritual battle which the devil is able to exploit to his advantage” (page 341).
28 In making this warning against stealing, Paul may have been thinking of a convert who had been in the habit of stealing before becoming a Christian and was in danger of falling back into this sin. He encourages that person to put his/her hands to good use through hard work instead of using them to steal. In doing so he/she would be able to share with the needy as well as to provide for himself/herself. A former thief’s working and giving to the needy instead of stealing illustrates the principle that we should not only stop sinning but also do good.
29 Paul says that Christians should keep their lips free not only from lying (verse 25) bur also from “corrupt communication,” which may signify not only bad language but also such harmful speech as abusive language and slander. Instead their words should edify and “minister grace” to others. Their stopping evil speech and substituting edifying speech is another example of doing good instead of sinning.
30 Paul goes on to urge his readers not to grieve the Holy Spirit, by whom they were sealed when they believed (1:14), by sinning. In a passage that Paul may have had in mind when he wrote this verse, Isaiah says that when the Israelites grieved the Holy Spirit He turned against them (Isaiah 63:10). T. K. Abbott (see below) observes, “Some of the older as well as later commentators see in the words a suggestion that the Spirit may thus be led to depart, and the seal be lost. But there is no suggestion of a possible departure of the Spirit…. But it would be equally erroneous to say that the doctrine of ‘final perseverance’ is contained or implied” (page 144). “The day of redemption” is the day of Christ’s returning to bring complete salvation (and judgment).
31 The activities listed are sins which grieve the Holy Spirit: “bitterness”or spite that harbours resentment, “wrath” and “anger” (see the next sentence), “clamour” or angry yelling, and “evil speaking” or abusive speech. “Wrath” and “anger” are often used synonymously; Harold W. Hoehner (see below) suggests that the distinction between them may be “that ‘wrath’ was more passionate and temporary, that is, anger that boils up, whereas ‘anger’ was more settled and abiding, a state of anger” (page 635). F. F. Bruce (see below) views “malice” (an active ill will) as a quality of the other sins listed in the verse and refers to Colossians 3:8 and 1 Peter 2:1 in commenting on it.
32 Kindness, tenderheartedness, and mutual forgiveness are the opposite of the sins listed in verse 31. Paul gives as motivation for forgiveness “even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” Not only did God first forgive us, but also we need His daily forgiveness, as the Lord’s Prayer reminds us: “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors” (Matthew 6:12).
1 Paul closes the passage by enjoining the Ephesian believers to follow or imitate God. Paul’s adding “as dear children” reminds them that they should imitate God as children imitate their parents rather than as servants trying to please their master.
2 “Walk in love” explains what is involved in imitating God. The motivation and model of walking in love is Christ’s love and sacrificial offering of himself. “Loved” in “Christ also hath loved us” being in the past tense doesn’t mean that Christ has stopped loving us but that his giving up himself for us was the greatest act of his love (see John 15:13). In the Old Testament the offering of a sacrifice is described as a “sweet savour unto the Lord” in Exodus 29:18,25,41 and Leviticus 1:9,13,17. Similarly our serving others sacrificially will be a sweet savour unto God.
The commentaries that I quoted from or referred to above are:
- Albert Barnes, Barnes’ Notes on the New Testament, Grand Rapids, Michigan: Kregel Publications, 1975 reprint (originally published in the 1830’s) (available online)
- T. K. Abbott, A Critical and Exegetical Commentary on the Epistles to the Ephesians and to the Colossians in The International Critical Commentary, Edinburgh: T. & T. Clark, 1897
- F. F. Bruce, The Epistles to Colossians, Philemon, and Ephesians in The New International Commentary on the New Testament, Grand Rapids, Michigan: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 1984
- John Calvin, The Epistles of Paul the Apostle to the Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians and Colossians in Calvin’s Commentaries, Edinburgh: The Saint Andrew Press, 1965 (originally published in French 1548)
- Saint Chrysostom, Homilies on Galatians…Philemon in A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers of the Christian Church, Grand Rapids, Michigan: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 1969 reprint (originally composed in Greek before 392)
- Harold W. Hoehner, Ephesians: An Exegetical Commentary, Grand Rapids, Michigan: Baker Academic, 2002
- R. C. H. Lenski, The Interpretation of St. Paul’s Epistles to the Galatians, to the Ephesians, and to the Philippians, Minneapolis, Minnesota: Augsburg Publishing House, 1937
- Peter T. O’Brien, The Letter to the Ephesians in Pillar New Testament Commentary, Grand Rapids, Michigan: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 1999.
A list of the commentaries that I regularly consult in my study of Ephesians is at the end of my article on Ephesians 2:1-10.